How I Met My Asian Boyfriend, Part 2

by Brooks · 14 comments

Featured AMWW Magazine Writer Brooks

Featured AMWW Magazine Writer Brooks

To all of you who read my first article “How I Got My Hot Asian Boyfriend, Part 1“ I’d like to thank you for taking the time to do so. I’m sorry the follow up article has taken so long. I’ve been very busy but now I’m ready to give you a bit more.

So I went home that night with this guy on my mind the entire drive home. I was in a trance of some kind it seemed. I was so annoyed that he had left me so abruptly but still so fascinated.

My cousin who was with me at the time said “Hellllllo…snap out of it. This is just a phase. You’ll be over it by next week.”

I said “I don’t think so, this time…”

The drive home was about 40 minutes and almost half way home my phone buzzed, my heart skipped a beat and my stomach had butterflies. I didn’t even know who it was but I was hopeful. I looked down at my phone, opened the message and it was HIM texting me.

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The message read, “Hey, are still in town?

I squealed in delight…”Ahh it’s him!

My cousin says “What? What’s he want?

I read it to her. She laughs, asks me if i’m going to respond. “Yes, but not right away.

So I wait the agonizing 20 more minute drive home, and then wait an additional 30 minutes while I get ready for bed. Once in bed I then decide to respond.

I text with a little annoyance… “Nope , i’m in bed – Nice to meet you though. Have a good night

See girls play this game too. Why? because we can and it keeps you men on edge.

(If a girl answers you with short , brief texts like this it can be confusing because

A) She is really into you but annoyed with you for wronging her some how

or

B) She could be completely not into you and just trying to cut the convo off quick.

She will give you signs to know if you are being given the A. or the B. It’s up to you to detect)

Make sure you don’t start being an A.. because she’s coming off as a Bitch (A little humor)!

His next text was apologizing for having to take off so quick and how he really wished I would have stayed. I agreed but said I was tired and was going to sleep. Truth was I layed there for hours unable to sleep, thinking about this guy and when I would see him next.

I knew it was not going to be easy as I was going through a divorce and knew in my heart I should not be jumping into anything. I’d never been single since I was 13 years old

[Editor: "Here's a little secret, 99% of beautiful girls are NEVER single for long."]

I’d spent half my life being tied to a single guy. I eventually fell asleep, and woke up . He was first thing that crossed my mind.

I wanted so badly to text him but made myself wait. Did not hear from him that entire day. So disappointed, but my anticipation built as I waited and waited.

2 days went by and still nothing! i had some concert tix so I asked our mutual friend (the one that had been in the ER) if she wanted to go and I asked her to ask “him” if he wanted to come with us.

Long story short we all met up and went to the concert. He was looking handsome as ever. It was here he planted some subtle moves on me.

  1. He stood very close.
  2. He took my hand in his.
  3. At the end of the night he tried to plant one on me!
  4. Failed because I was determined to take this slow!

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I wanted it but I didn’t want to come off easy and wanted him to earn it (another pointer to be learned here. If you stand in her “bubble” or personal space and she doesnt step back then she is feeling you…after awhile you then can move in for the hand).

If she holds your hand back then you have SUCCESS! and #3 if you move in for the kiss and she doesn’t go for that it does not mean she didn’t want it , it may mean she was like me a LADY… and those are hard to find. Trust me on this.

[Editor: "Are you making these 10 common mistakes of detecting a girl's indicators of interest that will kill attraction?"]

If she’s allowing you in her bubble and holding your hand , that long awaited kiss is not too far off! Just be patient it will be well worth the wait.

No one likes clingy people, unless of course, you yourself are one of those that crave the attention. This is especially true on the initial encounter.

If you find that a female is staying close to you, reinvigorating the conversation and excessively flirting with you, chances are she is really into you!

Until next time!

xoxo

Brooks b 007

  • Deuzchland

    TL;DR
    I know for a fact that it was “drunk one time at a bar”

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OBVTUO4WUABRKCNFUTXVSNMVGA Cat

    About pretty girls never being single for long… It’s a myth. Not to be egotistical or anything, but I’ve been told by innumerable counts of people that I’m pretty/beautiful.etc. but I’ve NEVER had a boyfriend. To be frank, I have a hard time keeping female friends, too. Being kinda pissed off by this, it turns out that, according to a lot of articles, beautiful girls are spited by other girls and are taken advantage of by guys! Not all, but I’ve NEVER had a long-lasting relationship with anyone, guy or girl, until high school. Elementary school was my loner period (even then I never understood why) and high school was depressing because I was always ignored by girls I tried to make friends with and frequently treated very rudely by them, until I joined an anime club where I was reunited with a childhood friend and we’re pretty tight. I have a few close friends, but other then that, everyone seems to ignore me (except other pretty girls of all races that I get along with pretty well…like attracts like?). Right now I’m a junior and homeschooled, and lonelier then ever (why I am is a long, loooong story). I recently turned seventeen…dear God, I’m just lonely and depressed as hell. A Seventeen magazine article by a girl said that it’s normal to hate pretty girls…wow, misery in a bottle if I’ve seen any. And the real genuine guys who are the best boyfriend material, it seems, would be too intimidated to approach me…and I’d rather not deal with a PUA bf if I can (no offense, JT, you’re an exception). It just seems hopeless, like I’ll be a loner forevs for something.

    Brooke, from one pretty girl to another, have you ever had this problem? Sure, scoring guys is one thing, but it seems that friendships just slip through my fingers. Has this happened to you?

    What about you, JT? If your ABCs of Attraction work on lonely SAMs in finding GFs, do you think that there’s a possibility that it could on a girl who really, really wants to make and keep longtime friends? Hell, even if it’s brief, I’m sick of feeling alone. 

    Thanks anyway.

  • Brandon

    Brooks,

    Pretty women are a dime a dozen. I see pretty women all the time. (unenthusiastic yawn). And you are absolutely correct in saying that beautiful women are not single for long. Again, not talking about pretty. Taking about drop dead gorgeous.But extremely desirable guys are also not single for long as well.Pick up artists? Insecure little perverts who feel the need to make themselves feel needed and wanted. (another unenthusiastic yawn). 

  • IamMe

    haha WORD on the pick up artist comment!

  • ron

    Sorry brooks, you’re beautiful, but you are also NEAR-BISEXUAL ! What do I mean by that ? even though you may not have slept with another woman, the fact that you were attracted to an FEMININE FEATURED, SMALL PENISED asian male makes you Near-Bi ! From the very first non asian female who was/is/ will be attracted to asian males women like you are Near-bisexual. think about it ! Excepting asian men, all other races of men are masculine and with good to big penises ! certainly, they don’t have that feminine look ! But, every white woman i have read who is either just attracted, dating or married to an asian male says he is cute ! That is very feminine ! Non asian women like asian men for all the wrong reasons……….the femine attraction ! see what I mean, your being beautiful has nothing to do with the fact that you’re Near-Bi,,,,,,,,,,,see Real women of all races go for Real men !

    • BARN

      lol, wow what a hater.  i feel sorry for you ron, i really do. I hope you get over it one  of these days.

    • Bigyellow

       Who are you Ron Jeremy’s “little brother”. Its sound like you like a big penis more than brooks lo!

  • ron

    Brooks

    after reading your article on how you met your asian BF, you nailed it ! he was the first femie looking guy after all those hunks and ‘big’ Greek men, which included your ex husband ! You just proved that feminine featured small dicks are the oposite attaraction for sexual white women !

    This is the common thread I have found of all non Asian women with asian men………after all the other real men, you and other Near-Bi.s fell for the ASEXUAL MALE ! NO NEED OF FURTHER PROOF ! U DEFINETLY ARE NEAR-BISEXUAL !

    • Guest

       spell check much?

    • ray

      You mad bro?

      It’s her choice, her life, not yours. No need to be a racist hater. Get over it, life moves on

    • Luvitne

      You are right, this chic has no clue

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_VIGTREMUHFU6KY3I233NVHYIII Greg

    just found this blog and I can only smile at all of the ignorant posts.. b/c I’ve lived this life as an Asian man in a White world :) … I was born in Korea but I grew up in redneck West Texas… I’ve never dated or been with an Asian girl in my life.. and have only had white girlfriends and one white ex-wife.. which I have two beautiful “halfies” with… anyway… nice to see our World becoming a huge melting pot!!! :)

    • roger

      first learn the differences between masculine & feminine and the penis size thing ! There arenon black women (mostly white) women who only sleep with black men, and the opposite of them, Bi or Near bi non asian women sleep with Oestrogen filled feminine featured small dicks like you guys !
      get it ? ! so there will ALWAYS be no asian women like white, black, lation, indian women who will always be attracted to you guys bec. you look like women and have small packages ! Straight women HAVE NOT/ ARE NOT/ WILL NOT go for your kind !

  • Dirk

    I wish more women wouldn’t care about race but they all want regardless of their race men that are tall and look like brad pitt, tom cruise, or matthew mcconaughey, asian men are not even in the female’s radar no matter how good looking or wealthy the asian man is.